Say it as it is!

Wanted to start blogging but couldn't decide on the theme; a Christian blog? (not sure), Health & Beauty? (dunno), Marriage & relationships? (sighs & rolls eyes).
Finally decided it's going to be my own little world; a place I can hide & find succour when the heat of life comes forth, a place I can vent my anger & frustrations without fear of retribution, a place I can willfully express my concerns & opinions without hurting anyone (hopefully) and of course, a place I can share my joy, thrills & success (best part) without incurring an enemy's wrath (or envy more like). Yeah, thatzit, it's gonna be a place where I can say it as it is. That brings me to ask, why people are so dang fake? Why people paint their pasture green when it's in fact withered & full of brown patches?
Once had these friends I grew up with, whom all of a sudden turned into strangers. We were ordinary o, born with no silver spoon but not ajepakis (literally one who lives on cassava) from a humble background. Upon graduation, my friends felt they needed to up their status as we were going into a wider world, nothing wrong with that. We started job & boyfriend husband hunting & I couldn't help but get amused at the way they presented themselves whenever a prospective suitor toaster shows up. They acted like some ajebos (posh kids) who never saw a cockroach or rat crawl out of their kitchen cupboards. Too fake for me. Of course we couldn't continue the ride together, went our separate ways.
My work colleagues & I got talking on money, men & marriage. My husband & I maintain transparency in our finances, like I know what he earns, he knows mine, he knows how & what I spend money on & so do I. It works for us.
Sorry, I'm tired, I'll continue next time.........Ciao!