Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Here we go...

This is not so easy as I thought....squeezing out time to blog is not particularly easy, with kids, husband , jobs & blah to tend to.
Anyways, where did we stop last? Yeah, my colleagues trying to fake hard. Some women do it all the time... they try to paint their homes/ marriages like a bed of roses and condemn any woman falling short of that standard. In as much as I want to believe my husband loves me dearly, getting married to him awakened me to a whole new world, not some fantasy world I dreamt of as a teenager. I realised we're two different individuals that would never be the same but must strike a balance and live together against all odds. I realised I can't win all the time, I have to put his feelings into consideration too & let it be his turn (even if I naturally want to be selfish & have my way at all times). I realised what works for him might not work for me but there's got to be some sort of compromise every now and again. Ultimately, I realised he's not perfect just like I'm not.

Now I'm wondering why some friend hater would give bad advice to her friend. Imagine friend A seeking counsel from friend B because she suspects her husband is having extra marital affairs. Friend B advises friend A to give her husband a complete show down because according to her she would never be taken for a fool, unknowingly to friend A that friend B's husband has just impregnated friend B's best friend...SMH.
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